yang ampuh adalah…dengan melihat kembali tulisan ini:

” If u have been rejected many times in your life. then one more rejection isn’t going to make much difference. If u’re rejected, don’t automatically assume it’s ur fault. The other person may have several reasons for not doing what u r asking her 2 do: none of it may have anything 2 do with u. Perhaps the person is busy. Or not feeling well or genuinely not interested in spending time with you. Rejections are part of everyday life. Don’t let them bother u. Keep reaching out to others. When u begin to receive positive responses, then u are on the right track. It’s an matter of numbers. Count the positive responses n forget about the rejections.”

kalau dari awal udah salah persepsi…ya kebelakangnya baru kelabakan….
salah satu contoh pengekspolitasian akan sesuatu tanpa tahu akan apa yang di eksploitasi! hehehehehe

ehm